Falling in Love

I bet you have all been in love and out of love many, many times. The question I pose to you is have you ever wondered what it is that you fall in love with and why?

When you meet someone and you start to develop a friendship, you learn all the things that you have in common with each other. For example walking along the beach or that you both love dogs, or it could be travel or rock climbing or investing!

It could be any number of things that you enjoy doing so when someone shows up in your ife that enjoys all the same things as you do, that’s when a connection happens. You start to see all the things that are an aspect of yourself and that is what you really fall in love with.

Of course when falling in love or infatuation, there are also very strong sexual desires that go with the “feelings” but is this true love? We can’t deny that the feelings are intense and it gives us such a warm, fuzzy feeling that it makes us feel wonderful and that it makes you believe that you have actually found your true love.

When we fall in love it collapses our reality. When our emotions are in that state of “being in love” it seems that nothing is impossible and that we can conquer all and live in bliss forever. This is where all those fairytales of make believe have conditioned us.

True Love

True love or Spiritual love is when we contribute to another persons spiritual and personal growth and has nothing to do with our sexual desires. We do not fall in love with our parents, brothers, sisters or children but we can love them deeply. These are the people that no matter what they do, you can forgive them and still love them.

The Law of Attraction is powerful enough that when our thoughts are in alignment with anothers, then we attract the people in our lives that we can form a bond with. So when our life seems incomplete in the relationship department, we start to think about the person that we would most like to be with.

I know of people that have written lists of traits that they would love their mate to have. Remember to be specific in what you ask for as for example if you wish to have children with your mate, make sure that you write down that they are the offspring of the two of you or you may meet someone that already has children to bring to the relationship.

Falling out of love

But what happens when these feelings pass? Falling in love is really only temporary whereas true love never fades. This is why when you have been in a relationship for a while you can start to see the aspects of yourself in the other person that you do not like or you start having little disagreements, therefore you have then “fallen out of love”.

True love requires you to extend your limitations and grow spiritually which requires effort, whereas falling in love is quite effortless. Sometimes we even choose the wrong person to fall in love with although we can learn important lessons through doing this.

Now how many times has that happened to you? I know that I have been in and out of love many times and when I think back to the relationships that I have had, they have all been for different reasons and with totally different personality traits. Don’t worry, yes I can have many personalities at once, lol. This comes from multi-tasking and raising a family

Finding that one true love can bring us the most extraordinary life experiences, and is a search that will be never ending for some. The people that have grown personally and spiritually in a relationship have been very blessed to have been in that situation.

Have you found your “true love?”

Love and Laughter

Ange

If I could take all your words away and give you but a sparse few, they would be: ‘I now know, I am absolute, I am complete, I am God, I am.’ If there were no other words but these, you would no longer be limited to this plane.
- Ramtha 

Quantum Physics

… is quite an interesting topic, to say the least!  Some of Ramtha’s students directed and appeared in the controversial  2004 movie “What the Bleep Do We Know!?  There is also an extended 2006 version called “What the Bleep!? Down the Rabbit Hole.”

 

Ramtha’s School of Ancient Wisdom is located in Yelm, Washington and this movie was shot on location in Portland, Oregon.

 

Why am I telling you about a movie that has been around for almost three years you may ask!  Well I have been immersing myself in the subject of Quantum Physics for a short time now and I have to say that it is very thought provoking.  It describes a connection between science and spirituality.

 

Some questions that came up for me that prompted my curiosity were:  Why do the things that happen to me happen?  Why am I here?  Where did I come from?  What is my purpose?  I’m sure that many of you have also encountered this type of self questioning at one time or another.

 

Forget all the logical physical laws that you know because the subatomic laws are just inconceivable for us if we do not have an open mind.  I am still learning what I can about this subject and I am very curious about understanding this phenomena.

 

Time and Space

When forced to summarize the general theory of relativity in one sentence: Time and space and gravitation have no separate existence from matter. Physical objects are not in space, but these objects are spatially extended. In this way the concept ‘empty space’ loses its meaning. The particle can only appear as a limited region in space in which the field strength or the energy density are particularly high. Therefore, time and space do not exist. We are all connected as one throughout the Universe.

 

Humanity is going to need a substantially new way of thinking if it is to survive! (Albert Einstein)

 

If you have not yet seen What the Bleep Do We Know!?, do yourself a favour and get a copy. Once you have been there, there is no turning back. Truth and Reality do exist if only we go and search for it.

 

Your friend

 

Ange