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I can’t say I have much parenting experience since I’m only new to this game but I’ll go by my own parents. I can’t complain about the way I was brought up because I feel I’ve turned out okay. It’s only evident to me now that my cousins that were brought up in single parenting homes or were neglected as children are very different from me. Some of them are still bitter and envious and sometimes I wished they stopped and listened to themselves. Just the other day I was telling my mother about how most people compliment my baby, Samara, how she’s so loving to everyone around her, and happy most times, and she said to me that “if people want to know what kind of life you’re living in your home they look at how your children act and they judge from that”. I believe that! And I’m not saying that children that act out are not given enough attention, in some cases it could be other things besides home life. For instance recently one of my close friends daughter accused her step brother of rapping her, it’s not the first time she’s admitted to lying, she said to me she’ll do anything to go to her father…..and not that her mother is not a good mother, outside she’s seems perfect. The mother refuses to get her psychological help, because she doesn’t want to be deemed as a bad parent, child youth and services, and other school counselors suspect that she might be a PD…… any who. I just believe parents should do the best they can for their children and even children they see who might be calling out for help. Sometimes it’s hard stepping into your friends life to get them to see that they’re child may have a problem. If you have good intentions you could actually save a life.